Thursday, December 31, 2009

Goodbye 2009!

I have to say that 2009 was not one of my favorite years. To me, even though it had some really great moments, overall 2009 was a stressful and difficult year. Some years are just like that, right? I think one of the reasons for this is the fact that our family experienced so many life changes at one time. We had two children graduate from high school, one graduate from college, three to take to college (two for the first time), and one get married all in the same year!

This was the year the economy seemed to be in a downward spiral and it was hard seeing friends losing thier jobs. It was a really bad time to graduate from college, too. Ashley was on pins and needles all summer just wondering if she would get a teaching job! In 2009 we also lost several good friends. And many of our friends lost their parents this year. It just seemed like it was one thing after another.

Through it all, though, God was faithful to our family. With His help, we made it through all the bumps in the road and He blessed us in so many ways despite the upheaval and change. It reminds me of one of my favorite hymns ever....

Great is thy faithfulness O God my Father
Morning by morning new mercies I see
All I have needed thy hand hath provided
Great is thy faithfulness Lord unto me!

And the good thing about years like 2009 is that they come to an end! I love looking forward to a new year! It's a new start with new goals and new opportunities and lots of hope. I am thankful that God gives us new beginnings.

Last year on New Years Eve, I answered 20 questions that helped me reflect back on the year. I had fun answering them so I thought I would answer them again this year, too. You are welcome to use these if you would like something to help you look back on your year!

1. What did you do in 2009 that you had never done before?

Saw Jersey Boys on Broadway, attended three weddings in one year and hosted my own daughter's wedding!, saw three of my children graduate in one year,

helped Ashley set up her very first classroom for her first teaching job,

saw the first African American president EVER get elected, and got a Palm Pixi phone that I can use to get on the internet and play games and even blog on! So cool!!

2. Did you keep your New Year's Resolutions and will you make more for next year?

I am sad to say that I did not do a very good job of keeping my New Year's Resolutions from last year. I really need help in that area. My resolution was to slow down and have more balance in my life. That totally did not happen in 2009. Heeelllppp! Anyone have any ideas for how to actually make this happen??? I am making the same resolution again this year, so I really want to keep it. :)

3. Did anyone close to you give birth?

Yes! My brother and sister-in-law had a beautiful baby girl, Brooklyn back in May.

Plus lots of our sweet couples in our Sunday School class had their first babies. It is so much fun watching their families grow!

4. Did anyone close to you die?

Yes. This was a sad year for us because two of our friends who were our age died of cancer. One of my very best friends growing up, Helen, died this month. And even though I don't get to see her much anymore, I was still so sad. She was beautiful and we had so much fun together and she was such a sweet wife, mother, and daughter. She left three children behind and I know they will miss her so much. This is her at her wedding...

Plus, several of our friends lost their own parents and we were so sad for them!

5. What places have you visited?

I went to two of my very favorite places this year....Florida

and New York!!

Steve and I also took a trip to Charleston and we visited Laura in Boone and Lindy in Greenville and Mark in Raleigh! Unfortunately, this was the first year our family didn't take a family vacation together. That has NEVER happened. But with all these teenagers working over the summer, it was too hard to coordinate their schedules. I hope we can do something together next summer!

6. What would you like to have in 2010 that you lacked in 2009?

More balance...time to do the things that really matter and not so much time working.

7. What date from 2009 will remain etched in your memory and why?

Well, that's a no-brainer! November 14, 2009....Ashley's wedding day! It was such a happy day for our family. She was beautiful and the wedding was perfect. I will never forget it!

8. What was your biggest acheivement this year?

I know I keep going back to this same theme, but honestly, pulling off a really big wedding and have it turn out so well and keeping my sanity was a really big acheivement for me. ")

9. Did you suffer illness or injury?

God was so good to me. I can't think of a time I've been sick this year except maybe a little cold! Nothing serious. But Ashley and Mark both got the Swine Flu!

10. What was the best thing you bought?

Steve bought me my Palm Pixi and I LOVE it! I guess I like technological gadgets more than I thought. haha

11. Where did most of your money go?

College tuition and wedding expenses!

12. What song will always remind you of 2009?

Hmmmm....let's are a few...

I Gotta Feeling by Black Eyed Peas-This is the song that Ashley's wedding party came into at her reception. So fun!

Party In The USA by Miley Cyrus-Okay...this is just a FUN song! My girls loved it when it came out and we danced to it at Ashley's wedding reception and had the best time. :)

The Best Day and Fifteen by Taylor Swift-I just love her and both of these songs remind me of Laura and Lindy and their last year at home. This song can pretty much make me cry my eyes out...

Chicken Fried and Whatever It Is-Zac Brown Band-I loved both of these songs this year!

13. What do you wish you would have done more of?

This is the same as it was last my Bible, excercise, and read for fun! I really want to try to accomplish working in more time for all of these things this year!

14. What do you wish you would have done less of?

Probably worrying about my kids and staying too late at work. I've got to find a way to pray more and worry less. Really, I'm not a huge worrier, but I just want my kids to be happy and healthy. You moms know what I mean! And I want to do a good job teaching, but somehow I've got to call it a day earlier than 4 or 5 o'clock in the afternoon! That's too late!

15. What was your favorite TV program?

Well, my favorites are still The View and King Of Queens reruns. But Steve and I also watched The Amazing Race and I loved American Idol. I watched a little bit of Desperate Housewives this year with Ashley, too!

16. What was the best book you read this year?

The best book I've read this year is the one I am reading now and am almost done with. The Help! You need to read is so good!

17. What was your favorite film of the year?

No question, the best movie I saw this year was The Blindside. I LOVED it!!

I also saw Marley and Me way back last January and I loved that movie, too!

18. What did you do on your birthday and how old were you?

Goodness...I turned 45 this year! Wow..I am getting old! :) This year my class spoiled me rotten with lots of sweet gifts. Then Steve took me to dinner downtown at a really good seafood restaurant called LaVecchia's!

19. What political issue stirred you the most?

The innauguration was a big deal at our house because Laura and Lindy were able to go! It was such an historical event and they stood outside with lots of their other high school friends in the FRIGID cold as the very first African American President was sworn in.

20. Who was the best new person you met?

I have met several new people this year...some at church, some through mutual friends, and some here in the blogging world. I love them all! Each person I have met has been an interesting and unique person and someone who I am looking forward to getting to know even better!!


  1. What an eventful year!! I hope 2010 is full of blessings for you. I just read The Help and LOVED it. I think it is my new favorite book.

  2. What a great way to remember the year!

    And Blind Side was defnitely my favorite movie as well...we actually may go see it again tonight!

    Happy 2010!

  3. Happy New Year to you and your family!

  4. Happy New Year! You have no doubt had a very busy 2009. Hoping to see Blind Side this weekend.

    I love "Great Is Thy Faithfulness". Beautiful song and so true. It was sung at my father's funeral and gave such strength.

    Blessings to you and yours this 2010.

  5. Wow, you have been through a lot this year! Things are bound to settle down for you in 2010!

    Reading the Help and wanting so much to see The Blind Side - maybe this weekend :)

    Happy New Year, Betsy!

  6. It sounds like you had a busy year!! Hope 2010 is a better one!

  7. I loved reading this post and seeing the pictures. :)

    I'm ready to see 2009 go too and look forward to 2010!

  8. Love this post Betsy!! So many things going on for you, btw you are not old and you do not look 45!
    Happy new year to you, blessings to your family this new year!!

  9. I always love your posts! You have so many exciting things going on with your kids so close in age! It reminds me of my house a few years ago.

    Happy 2010 to you and yours. may you be blessed beyond measure this year and may God grant you the desires of your heart.

  10. Love this post Betsy! It's so fun to reflect on the year and look forward to a new, promosing, and hopefully productive year! Good luck on your resolutions! That's a hard one to keep and one I made last year and failed at as well! lol

  11. I just read The Help and LOVED it. I think it is my new favorite book.

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